Velma’s Disappointment

Dinner at Auntie’s was as exquisite as her Manhattan townhouse.  Velma felt a bit awkward at first, of course.

This shop has a cool way of looking from far away, and looking from up close: http://www.etsy.com/shop/antonyz

But after a drink or two, with auntie’s smooth and gracious way, they were all laughing and carrying on.  Velma and Scarlett cabbed back to Scarlett’s apartment, leaving Vesta with her auntie.

So inspired by this shop, I might start doing situps! GORGEOUS! http://www.etsy.com/shop/babuclai

Velma got out her softest nightgown and got into the guest bed.  Thinking over the weekend, she was disappointed that their exciting search for a city flat was cut short by Vesta and her aunt’s townhouse gift. Velma worried anew that retiring to the country had been a premature decision.  She worried anew about spinsterhood, about her future.

I’ve loved this shop since before their appearance on GMA: http://www.etsy.com/shop/ToScarboroughFair

Scarlett’s black cat, Sherman, came in wearing his gold-trimmed hat and curled up with Velma.  Unlike the black dogs named Sherman that preceded him, this furry creature was intuitive and loving.  With a penchant for dress-up.

Velma rested her hand on Sherman’s back; he purred, lulling Velma to sleep.

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About AngelaLTodd

I am queen of the helicopter parents. But there are enough of us that we are becoming a social problem. Here’s my story. Thing 1 was coming, they couldn’t stop him, it was only 24 weeks and 3 days. Someone asked: should we try to save him? Well, yes. Yes! Ten days later, a team of doctors closed the door behind us to explain brain bleeds, sepsis, meningitis. Shall we pull the plug? Well, no. No! Babydaddy laid hands on him every day, massaged him when he was ready. For the three months he was in intensive care, and the three weeks at an intermediate hospital, I would get up in the night and pump breast milk, thinking about my baby across town. Babydaddy delivered it every morning, earning the name “milkman.” It was funny. We had every therapy going for as long as possible: early intervention, the intermediate unit, private therapies. Terms multiplied: sensory processing dysfunction, sensory integration problems, orally defensive, auditory sensitivities, comprehensive developmental delay, cognitive function impairment, retinopathy of prematurity. He did occupational therapy, physical therapy, speech therapy, play therapy; we consulted with a neurologist, school psychologist, wraparound service provider, developmental specialist. He worked with an occupational therapist for a year and a half to tolerate teeth and hair brushing. Not surprisingly, parenting didn’t feel natural. I learned to read to my baby watching Phyllis, our physical therapist. Voices, commentary, labeling colors, counting… she was very good! Merging professional research skills with my genetic propensity for silliness (mom was class clown, dad’s distantly related to Lucille Ball), my mothering style came together. Eventually. But I still channel Phyllis on occasion. Thing 2 was full term. They are complete opposites; she is a sensory seeker with a wild sense of adventure and an inventive sense of fashion. Keeping them both busy and happy is an exasperating and sweet challenge. I still believe that every day can be fun and educational while reinforcing kids' boundaries. I’m on a mission to save us helicopter parents from ourselves. No more bubble wrapped kids and guilty parents. Let’s teach them coping skills. Let’s get fun.
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